There are basically 5 languages of love that people speak.
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Here are the 5 languages of love:
· Quality time: For a person who speaks this
language, things like eye contact, deep and meaningful conversations and
shared activities are needed to feel loved. Bonding time with their
partner is what is most important to them.
· Receiving gifts: When you are with a partner who
love little gifts and surprises, this is precisely what you will get.
You will constantly be showered with new clothes, flowers or even
chocolates. This is how they want to be loved, so this is exactly what
they do for their partners. Giving the gift of self is also an important
symbol of love to these people.
· Words of affection: This works by giving your
partner constant compliments, sweet love notes and lots of
encouragement. This is important because those who speak this language
are sensitive people and don’t take criticism as well as others. They
may illustrate their frustrations by using sharp words or even by
harassing you.
· Physical touch: If this is the language of your
partner they will be very affectionate or, as some like to call it,
touchy-feely. Sex to them means much more than just an orgasm - it is a
way to connect. If you deny someone who speaks this love language sex,
they may feel unloved.
· Acts of service: Some people find pleasure in
doing things for others. This may mean that they will feel loved when
their partners help out with chores or doing things for them. However,
acts of service should be done out of love, not obligation.
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Found this out when i was with a close friend.
She concluded i speak the language of Gifts..
Well i guess i do.. I very rarely receive gifts but i rather really love giving handmade gifts..
Guess everyone does speak every of the 5 languages but one in particular excels more then the other.
I mean i love getting physical touches, i am a hugging whore after all. Anyone care to give me a warm hug? haha.
Anyways, which of the 5 do you speak?
Love, CK
