Friday 23 November 2012

322 : Too high expectations?

"Leonut, your expectations are too high There are so many guys in Australia. You sure you can't find one?"

The question is, is there such thing as having a too high expectation?

I mean you are picking someone that you are suppose to love unconditionally throughout your whole life, are you suppose to just pick anyone with no expectations whatsoever for the future?..

Its just something that a lot of people have said that and i'm just wondering if its true.

Anyways, people say people you find attractive and people you date are two different type of people as i've been told..

This post is practically mindless rambling. Damn tired from work and being scolded by my head bitch manager doesn't help either.

Ultimately maybe this is an issue of the "reacher and settler" as HIMYM mentioned where a "reacher" is a person who reaches beyond their level of beauty and a "settler" a person who settles for someone below their level of beauty.

Are you a reacher or a settler?

I'm reaching for the stars million lightyears away. Gonna die not even close to the stars. lol..

Leonut

13 comments:

  1. A reacher waiting for settler, but I guess is time to change that...

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    1. Means people reached for you before but you didn't settle la?..

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  2. hmm, think im a reacher, coz im not good looking wa, so it's quite easy to find someone better than me, hahahahahahaha

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    1. Lol, not necessarily need to be good looking mah. Good looking people can be a reacher as well. Lol, but you got a point.. easier to find.. hahaha

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  3. erm... let's not resort to branding... just go with the heart. when you feel the person is right, he is. and the rest, you have to discover. no perfection. guaranteed.

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    1. The wise is always wise.. Never thought about it that way, influenced by the media already. lol, true that! Follow ma heart!

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  4. i feel like you gotta keep reaching... otherwise you might find yourself reaching for more after you thought you've settled... and that's not good...

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    1. So true!! I'm not weird then! lol Awesome advice!

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  5. Can always go out with anyone but ultimately you definitely need some standards for the final person that you're looking for!

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  6. Gay life is cursed in time and blood, let alone relationships..
    So it is what it is, no it won't last a lifetime - either one or both will die by AIDS.. They all die in vain
    And yes I'm gay (or used to be) and sick hell tired of it all so don't judge me

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    1. Quite the negative nancy aren't you? Sod off.

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