Your virginity.
Does it or did it matter to you?
Some group takes it as a symbol of purity.
A Symbol of their self control and patients in waiting for the right guy..
One day, their prince will come and they will surrender themselves completely without the slightest of hesitation.
In the other hand,
Another group of people says your virgitny is nothing.
That it isn't important and wouldn't matter if you had it or not.
That it's stupid to be holding out on something so good..
Recently, I made my choice on what it meant to me.
What does it mean to you?
Leonut
It doesn't especially when it comes to rainbow people like us.
ReplyDeleteAnd having said that, it doesn't imply that one can go all out and slut.
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Haha, self control?.. Temptation to go full slut is always there.. haha
Deletesomething big. even sex is. just people with the one-s, but not only.
ReplyDeletelol.. I see.. But isn't sex and losing your virginity about the same?..
Deletewell, you get to lose your virginity once, but it doesn't necessary make the person who took it is the one though. things change, and they suck.
Deletefor me, it is everything, i will only give it to someone who i am very sure is the one.....but.....sometimes it is kinda tempting lo, WUAHAHAHAHAHA
ReplyDeleteYou willing to give into temptation?.. hahahaha! :PP
DeleteThree months later I became a virgin again
ReplyDeleteLIKE haha
Deletelolx
DeleteLol, i come visit you want or not malimo?.. :P
DeleteCome, I'm still single (for now) hahahahahahaha..... :D
DeleteGood one.
DeleteI guess the big deal of losing your virginity is experiencing sex for the very first time, it changes your world.. In some ways yeah, you do lose a certain purity, you may feel somewhat guilty, but i think the excitement of such a personal and powerful experience outweighs it eventually.
ReplyDeleteIt's like taking the first step into new chapter of life haha.. Part of growing up... But because you can only lose it once, so I guess it should be to someone special... :)
When your would change and you become a hungry hyena for dicks around the world.. Teehee! May it be the right person lo.. >.<
Deleteit mattered a lot la. but 5 years down the road it doesn't. you always wanna give that special someone your first time but god, you're gonna have so many special someones along the way that you'll realize it's highly unlikely.
ReplyDeleteWhen the right guy comes along it doesn't matter lor.
Haha, hopefully i wouldn't have many special ones along the way lor.. But like you said before.. If mr.rights don't work out can go full slut.. Hahaha
DeleteHonestly, it did. But sometimes you think that he's the right guy and he doesn't turn out to be the right guy. I guess thats life. You can't like put such a high priority on it. I mean, its a one time thing. I'd say as long as you did it willingly, then don't have any regrets. Coz at that point in time, that was what you wanted.
ReplyDeleteBut at that point where you can't think clearly with the thought of a chance with sex and just do it willingly and regret later..
DeleteIt does but then again it doesn't? Obviously to many it does. Just a matter of when, where, who and how.
ReplyDeleteI guess its the who people are worried about.. Haha, the where wouldn't matter la.. Public toilet, gym, swimming pool... hahahaha!
DeleteI agree ....
Deleteit always holds something important, though rainbow ppl like us can fake it easily. I think it does. But then again, Mr.Right now might not b your Mr.right in the future.
ReplyDeleteHaha, it doesn't have to be Mr.right completely lo.. Mr.Right-at-the-moment maybe?
DeleteIt is something important to me. I want to make sure I give it to the prince that stays forever with me. But given the high uncertainty, the first prince who comes and makes me have the idea of forever will be enough. At least it is not to some random strangers and it will be a great memory.
ReplyDeleteYea, imagine thinking back to your first time and all you can remember is someone you don't even remember the name of.. >.<
Deletei don't know... i guess it is important to me?
ReplyDeleteLol, do you still have it?
DeleteI can tell you that it is important and it is worth the wait. Making love and having sex is two different things. And the latter is cheap. Dirt cheap.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the Advice. =D
DeleteI literally Lol'ed at the Dirt cheap part. =P
Lost my virginity at age 23. Regret, but the one who took it as if another engagement btwn 2 guys
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