"Lets play hide and seek!", he said to me as we agreed to have lunch together the next day.
"Let's see how long it takes for u to catch me!", he playfully teased me. At that moment, i fell for him a little as he was so cutely childish. That night i went to sleep with full curiosity and excitement.
The next day, i sat for an exam and at 10 i was free!
11am. I look at my watch and silently mumbled to myself, "And so the hunt begins.." with a grind on my face. I started scouting the area for him, walking up and down the stair, passing block to block. 10 mins later, he was still no where in sight. At the point of almost giving up i found him. Stupid boy was having consultation and dint tell me!
We went to a western restaurant nearby. Ate and chat, covering almost every topic a typical gay would cover, i shall cut the details.. but generally, I had so much fun!! About 2 hours in, we were ask if we could leave due to the lack of available tables. So we proceeded to popping my tutti fruitti virginity! haha, another hour of chit chat in tutti fruitti and he had to go. We walked back to the main campus, gave him a hug and i left. <3
Yea, i cut many details but that was the general "date"?.
Haha, the relationship is.. progressing?..
Really not sure what my next step will be.. I'm leaving to Australia next year and all.. :(
Dilemma,
Klex
Popping ure tutti frutti virginity... hahaha that actually sounds like the actual thing... like tutti frutti is the world you'd use to describe your virginity because it is so... well... so fruity (fruity being the pun for camp/gayish btw!) hawhaw I laugh at my own jokes... anyway, sounds fun :) sounds innocent, and most of all you sound happy. I'd probably tell you not to think about it too much and just go with what feels right for you but there's that whole Aussie thing which we already discussed last night.
ReplyDeleteHmm... you both need to talk. And Imma say it again here because I think that's the best thing you can do right now, is talk with him about what YOUR options are, and then give him a chance to give you some of his options as well. The biggest mistake most couples... or rather in your case pre-relationshipers ... make when it comes to these issues is that one makes the decision on behalf of the other one thinking like "Imma break it off, to save him/her the heartbreak." Well.. it's kinda unfair cuz... it ain't all about what you want you know. It's his/her relationship too! So it's always nice to sit down, talk, and ask. Good luck Klex. :)
The best thing to do is just go with the flow..
ReplyDeleteIf there's one thing I learned in the past year is that things don't always go as planned. So there's no need to over think stuff, just enjoy the moment as it comes.. since setting up expectations of how things will be like don't turn out that way anyway...