Monday 14 May 2012

217 : Stuck in the Middle.

Ever got stuck between two people's conflict and don't know what to do?
Both sides tell you their part, both having their stand and both not in the wrong.
Siding either of them just seems unfair for the other..

While talking to a friend recently, he told me about a problem he was facing.
A close friend of his stopped talking to him completely, without an apparent reason.
He was quite bump and down about it as they were previously very close.
Although he kept his friend anonymous, i knew who he was referring too, and the reason too..
I felt bad.. the fact that i couldn't say anything..  Both parties told me things and i can't tell either of them..

Another is between my close friends, the were in the relationship before but broke up a while back.
The guy obviously still likes her and he does the sweetest things in my opinion for her..
The girl however, doesn't feel the same.. And they both tell me stuff too..
You cant expect the girl to be in a relationship when she doesn't feel the same way right?
Anyways.. Stuck in the middle.. I really wish i can advice them but its impossible to give an advice without being bias to one's feelings knowing how both of them feels..

For the first story, i'm just going to sit aside and hope it unfolds by itself..
The second however..
Sign..

Love,
Leonut.

20 comments:

  1. first story sounds so familiar lor! >.< o well

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    1. It does?... lol, you going through the same thing? ><

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    2. with the nice girl bitch lor

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    3. Yorr.. I dont want intervene lo.. =/

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  2. i'll end someone who dunno any of them and tell him/her the story.. just to let it out from my chest..
    another way.. blog about it :)

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    1. I just realize i never talk about both stories to anyone ever.. Not even blogging before.. lol, i feel like it isnt my story to tell lo.. And i dont have friends to rant to that dont know either of them..

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  3. If you think both of they are meant to be together, then you should help them.

    If not then, then just let each of them go their separate way.

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    1. I'm not sure.. The girl sees some traits in him that she cant accept.. And i don't think she will be happy with him. Complicated lo.

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  4. Owh...tell me about it.. i am stuck in between my mom and my sis.

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  5. My personal opinion would be to not intervene in something unless it directly affects your interests. In the case of friends, the best you can do is be a good listener and maybe comfort them individually.

    Only when it involves you, say a family matter or an incident that had something to do with what you did or said, then should you contribute to the outcome.

    Sometimes things only get messier when you try to help, and in worst cases, other people may not appreciate your actions and start disliking you instead..

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    1. True.. Okay! All ears then! :DD
      Guess that is the best thing to do la.. Thank you!

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  6. Just let it be for now. If it is meant to be, it will be. as long they don't ask for your advice, then better keep quiet

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    1. Yea.. Just sucks to see them like that..

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  7. i know what u mean. you're trying hard to like be good to both of the parties but then u know it's frustrating coz u really cant do anything when it comes to love problems

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  8. I'll trap them to meet up for lunch or something, then I reveal my evil plan to them to get them talk to each other . The very reason for this plan is to tell them that it is unfair for me to get caught in the middle and have uneasy feeling for both of them, so they better sort it out now. I'll be sitting there listening thru it.

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    1. Lol, i dont mind being trap la.. I just dont like seeing them like that.. I wish i can but all of them is like thousand miles away.. Hard to set up lo.. ♥

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  9. Been there. Its never easy being the middle person. Both sides needs to be taken and you always got to watch what you say so both parties won't get offended or so that you don't slip something out.

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    1. Yea exactly! How did you get out of it?

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